

James lived his life with a singular devotion: to children. He cherished his time with his daughters, Yvonneke and Kendra; and was instrumental in caring for his grandchildren, Kyle, Alex, and Carleigh during their first year of life. To the countless babies and children he would never meet, he was their advocate - insisting that every child deserves to be welcomed with touch, bonding, and joy.
Born in 1934, James’s early years included time in an orphanage, an experience that shaped his deep compassion and unwavering belief in the transformative power of love. His groundbreaking research at the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (NICHD) revealed what few were ready to hear: a baby’s need for nurturing touch and early attachment is not optional - it is essential for human wholeness. He demonstrated that when children are carried, breastfed, and loved without violence, they grow into adults capable of empathy, intimacy, and peace.
Though his work in the 1970s was often met with resistance, James never wavered. After his research was silenced, he carried the torch for fifty more years - reminding the world that peace begins at birth, and that violence is prevented only in the way we care for mothers and babies. His writings, interviews, and mentorship inspired generations of parents, caregivers, researchers, and therapists to trust the wisdom of their bodies and the brilliance of their babies.
Among his many contributions, James was especially proud of his award-winning film, the Time Life documentary Rock A Bye Baby, which describes the influence of infant care and child-rearing practices on emotional development, both in humans and in primates. It remains available at violence.de, a legacy site of his work.
Those who knew James personally will remember his warmth, his sharp mind, and the way he always circled back to what mattered most: love. His greatest pride was his family, and his daughters carry forward the best of his legacy – touching the lives of children and advocating for future generations.
James’s life reminds us that science can be an act of love, and parenthood can be an act of revolution. His legacy lives on not only in the scientific record, but in the countless lives he touched with his compassion and courage
James is survived by his ex-wife, Carla, his daughters, Yvonneke Weitzel (Husband, Drake, and their children, Kyle Bastiaan and Alexis Ines) and Kendra Prescott (and her daughter, Carleigh Whittier Linn), and a world that still needs the truths he so faithfully carried.
A memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to organizations supporting maternal-infant health and early childhood development — causes closest to James’s heart - including The Evolved Nest (TheEvolvedNest.com), Touch the Future (ttfuture.org), Kindred Media (Kindredmedia.org), and a forthcoming documentary about James, featuring him with his daughter Kendra.
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